Heir of Narcissism

Exploring ADHD in the Context of Complex Trauma

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Living with ADHD can feel like the world wasn't made for you. But what if it's really a superpower in the wrong context?

Too often, a neurodivergent person can feel like the world wasn’t made for them. They take this perspective and blame themselves for issues they can’t fix in others, and yet they rarely take credit for their successes. Clinicians, people with ADHD, and their family may struggle to understand this disorder beyond the diagnostic criteria. It frustratingly affects many aspects of daily living that don’t seem to count toward or are often neglected in treatment paradigms.

But what if we could think about ADHD in a new context?

ADHD is far more complex than a diagnosis. It’s systemic in the lives of people with ADHD and often misunderstood by those around them. Yet perhaps looking at ADHD with a wider focus, looking through the context of complex PTSD and challenging the assumed origins of the disorder, can help reveal the hidden superpowers.

Tackle an unfair locus of control. Name the strengths of each person with ADHD. Challenge your own ideas about people with ADHD and how to care for them from a place of empathy.

Then, let’s work on changing the world together.

Reviews

Rated 5 out of 5
“I mean, as someone married to a person with ADHD, it helped me have more empathy and a better understanding of what you face each day (without truly understanding, bc I can't). It was a tough read, but packed with information I didn't know that I could still relate to and understand. Definitely a powerful book for anyone who has ADHD, has been in any kind of relationship with a narcissist, or friends and family of either.”
Selina
Rated 5 out of 5
“I have struggled for years as a child of an NPD and have been on my healing journey without going no contact. It got harder to do after having my son and questioning a lot about my childhood. In addition, I have a spouse with ADHD. This book gave me a world's better understanding of my spouse and has brought me closer to healing with each moment of, "oh my gosh - that's exactly how it feels!" I would highly recommend this book to anyone who loves someone with NPD, ADHD, Addiction and more.
Elizabeth
Rated 5 out of 5
“Reading this book was like a warm hug. For those with ADHD, it is comforting and empowering to know that you are not inadequate, but a culmination of your life experiences. Through this perspective, we can increase empathy and self-compassion, and learn ways to stop the cycles of abuse.”
Katy